What Yall Think Bout This

[LyricalPranksta]

aight i just moved to Va from california to go to school, i been talkin to this girl who lives round the way fo bout a 2 months now. I met her throught her cousin L. now shorty just gettin outta relationship wit her man or whatever, so i just been keepin my distance from her but now that her and her man aint together should i go head and make my move?i mean im really feelin her but she on ol' boy heavy. she still got hope or whatever that they gonna get back together, i dont wanna seem like im puttin on her too hard or anything like that, ya feel me. So i was thinkin bout takin her to this concert tonight down in DC, some little valentine show with Ginuwine but come to find out she has other plans, but i mean if i really wanted her i could make her forget all bout ol boy fo real, but im waitin fo her to realize that he dont love her no more, fo real fo real i dont think he ever did fo real, but i cant blame her cause she was like how he was her fuckin first true love and shit, what yall think?man im bout to be like fuck other dude, i want shorty fo myself...i can make her love me,

[Artisan]

DOGG!!!!! i was in the exact same situation as yourself....exact same..no difference.....i went through that..and this is what i suggest you consider doing.....keep talking to the girl and everything...the girl i was with...she was dead still hung on the guy that she was last with..they was toghter for 3 years...now the girl your talking to is more then likely still thinking about the guy and like you said still have hopes of getting back toghter with him...but at the same time feels lonly and is still chilling it up with you...she is caught between two people and not sure what to do..trust me....thats how she feels....if she says it or not.
but keep chilling with her and talking with her.. DO NOT GET TO ATTACHED!!!!!!!!!!....not yet. thats the worst thing you could do right now..because she just got out a relationship with someone before you and if she deciddes she isn't really into you like that you are left with emotions and feelings for her and its hard man..its hard..(it happend to me)
so dont make the move yet...another thing you can try is talking to her on how she feels about the other guy she broke up with...you can make a better judgement on where you two should go with your relationshipl........

man....that shit you posted up is like de ju vu....i was in the same boat as you...but get a life jacket just incase your boat sinks......(one of my corny metaphors)

[Baron Downs]

What part of VA you living in?

[Cliche Guevara]

You better bring her to that show homie. Right now if she had to pick, she'd pick her old man over you and that means you ain't doin enough.

Don't bother trying to convince her that old boy doesn't love her. You need to show her you can give her more than he can, and you won't do what he did.

Get her to trash talk her old man too... like bring up a conversation and if she mentions "oh he used to do blah blah" or whatever negative thing she says, stretch that out. Be like, "yeah I'd never do somethin like that. That's fucked up... what else he do wrong?" Because the more she hears herself saying the negative things about him, the more she'll realize it.

I'ma stop there though.

[LyricalPranksta]

Originally Posted by Artisan

DOGG!!!!! i was in the exact same situation as yourself....exact same..no difference.....i went through that..and this is what i suggest you consider doing.....keep talking to the girl and everything...the girl i was with...she was dead still hung on the guy that she was last with..they was toghter for 3 years...now the girl your talking to is more then likely still thinking about the guy and like you said still have hopes of getting back toghter with him...but at the same time feels lonly and is still chilling it up with you...she is caught between two people and not sure what to do..trust me....thats how she feels....if she says it or not.
but keep chilling with her and talking with her.. DO NOT GET TO ATTACHED!!!!!!!!!!....not yet. thats the worst thing you could do right now..because she just got out a relationship with someone before you and if she deciddes she isn't really into you like that you are left with emotions and feelings for her and its hard man..its hard..(it happend to me)
so dont make the move yet...another thing you can try is talking to her on how she feels about the other guy she broke up with...you can make a better judgement on where you two should go with your relationshipl........

man....that shit you posted up is like de ju vu....i was in the same boat as you...but get a life jacket just incase your boat sinks......(one of my corny metaphors)

but man i feel you, she was like how she always had feelings fo him, but at the time they met she was wit some other nigga and he was seein someone else...so they been together fo like 7 months or whatever, but so this aint the first time they broke up, ya mean....they broke up right before Christmas too, that was the first time, this time was the second, and who did she come cryin to? ME....but then they got back together sometime in Jan and then broke up 2 weeks ago today, aint that bout some shit? but see me and my homeboy Elroy was talkin bout this shit to day and he was like how i should say fuck it and try to get with shorty or whatever and i was thinkin bout it, and it seems like he breaks up with this girl right round something BIG happens, like the broke up right b4 Christmas and then got back together 2 weeks later, and now they broke up bout 2 1/2 weeks b4 Valentines Day, fo real to me it seems like nigga playin games with shorty head, but see the hard part for her is that man broke up wit her, its not like she broke up with man man cause if that was the case she will be with me right now, ya feel wha im sayin

Originally Posted by Baron Downs

What part of VA you living in?

Crystal City, not too far from the Pentagon I go to HU up in DC

Originally Posted by Cliche Guevara

You better bring her to that show homie. Right now if she had to pick, she'd pick her old man over you and that means you ain't doin enough.

Don't bother trying to convince her that old boy doesn't love her. You need to show her you can give her more than he can, and you won't do what he did.

Get her to trash talk her old man too... like bring up a conversation and if she mentions "oh he used to do blah blah" or whatever negative thing she says, stretch that out. Be like, "yeah I'd never do somethin like that. That's fucked up... what else he do wrong?" Because the more she hears herself saying the negative things about him, the more she'll realize it.

I'ma stop there though.

yea i feel you on the not doin enough ya mean, but i respect her and her man ya know,i mean from the way she was talkin he was her knight and shining amor ya feel me that niggas was her everything, she flaunted that nigga round everywhere, she live up in DC.. i dont want to make it seem like im pushin up on her knowin how she feel bout ol boy ya feel me, but like in her eyes no one can love her and do for her the way he do ya know, ya know and on the whole trash talk shit, i mean the only thing that she ever say is that sometimes it seems like he say little shit out the side of his mouth or do shit he think/know he can get away with cause she'll still be there no matter what or whatever ya feel me, but she takin it real hard cause ol boy broke up wit her ya know and that was the first time i think anyone every broke up with her that she truely loved ya feel me, she was like how that nigga was her everything, she even showed me this pic of a tatt he drew of his name and she was talkin bout gettin that shit on her arm, but yea we here at the show now, im on my sidekick she went to the bathroom, i went to her job and got her, i convinced her to come so her boss (which happens to be my cousin, go figure) let her come, she went to the bathroom and everything was everything til Jagged Edge came out and started singing Walked Outta Heaven, DAMN!!!she started cryin and talkin bout how she miss her ol man, she even got that song on her voicemail fo his loffin ass

i mean all i wanted to do fo real was talk to her, spit that game, hit it and leave ya know, but shorty kinda growin on me....she alil poet too...she kinda good....but lately all that girl writes bout is her man

UPDATE 2-11-06

aight so i took homegirl to the lil show or whatever, so enjoyed herself, she was feelin that nigga ne-yo or whatever, so ya know i asked if she wanted anything to eat so she was like she wanna go to ihop...lol....lets just say everyone was thinkin wha we were thinkin cause that place was heavy as shit....so we sittin there eatin so im bein real with her tellin her how i feel bout her and how i feel bout her and her man man, so she sittin there thinkin and shit so she up outta no where "terrence im feelin u, but right now im hooked on someone else, i just dont think u and me will work at the moment, im sorry if i let u think anything was gonna happen but i still love my ex"....i was like DAMN....but i knew it was comin, just like homeboy said DONT GET ATTACHED....but yea with that said i guess ill just be by herside no matter what...but ima do me til she come round and realize that ol' boy aint thinkin bout her, and i let that shit be known, i told her as much as she thinkin bout him, he probably aint thinkin bout her, she kept lookin at her cell phone thinkin rather or not she should call him, but i let her see it like this, as much as she wanna call him how many times as he called you, just to talk and see how you doin?.....once she said none i was gone...i let her have it.......by the time i was done with her she started to see shit, but she still on ol boy...ima still try to get her but ima do me fo the moment being

[Baron Downs]

Oh nice, you up there lol. I'm down in Covington VA, around Roanoke.

[Rei Calif]

if you'd type in paragraphs i might do the effort to read it.

[LyricalPranksta]

Originally Posted by Baron Downs

Oh nice, you up there lol. I'm down in Covington VA, around Roanoke.

yea i got some peoples way down in VA....right by the NC border...they live over in Redoat, VA....or some shit like that

Originally Posted by Nahledge

if you'd type in paragraphs i might do the effort to read it.

its not that long...just replies to other people

[Artisan]

yea man....you got TO ATTACHED...but you was probablly allready a little to attatched to her before you posted this..like you said you was talking to her for 2 months....how long have her and her man been broken up this latest time?...if its been a while and the man is the one who keeps initiatingthe breakups..sooner or later the relationship is just going to falla and never be around anymore...

in my case homie....i knew that the girl was still attatached to her ex..but i didn't want to listen to myself..i just kept on trying to get with her because she watned the extra attention since she wasn't with that guy any longer. but at the same time i was attatched to her and whated to get with her like a ful blown relationship, but the girl just wanted me around due to the absence of her ex. fuckybuddy, closenit shit like that but just like in your situation she confronted me and said she wasn't feeling me like that and just wanted to be friends because she was still hung on the other guy......

now i'm going to tell you what i feel i should of done....

I feel i should of tried getting out to look at other girls, but that would of been hard because i was stuck on her and it appeared she was stuck on me also, but that wasn't the case..i got caught up and she led me on......thats probably how you feel, correct me if i'm wrong....
but if you still want to get with girl, more power to you. but keep in mind that its risky on behalf of your feelings. personally i think the relationship with her and her ex is going to be a finished over and done deal pretty soon, considering what you told me. but its still risky because more then likely with you still trying to hook up with her, shes gonna be thinking about her ex...(i bet she talks about that guy a hell of a lot don't she)....pisses you off huh..

but yo if you want to speak on this further man hop on

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hit a brother up man....

[OutsideTheBoxEN]

damn all i have to say now is dont let ya feelings take the best of you, right now like we all know she hooked on her man right now, what she needs now is a friend by herside, she made it clear that she still want her ex, its on you if you want a girl who doesnt really want you persay.....do you know how long they known each other?, she a writer?she mostly write poems and things like that?

[Kaeo.Seru]

on the real homie you may wanna think about the reasons why Homeboy broke up with her in the 1st place. you may be gettin youself into a stressful situation. maybe she was on sum dumb shit like lieing to the nigga on a regular basis or manipulative as a muhfucka. or maybe she is just a crazy bitch you never know son. just check up on that.

on a sidenote: i know exactly what youre talking about. EXACTLY

[SuB ZErO]

good luck in va

[LyricalPranksta]

Originally Posted by Artisan

yea man....you got TO ATTACHED...but you was probablly allready a little to attatched to her before you posted this..like you said you was talking to her for 2 months....how long have her and her man been broken up this latest time?...if its been a while and the man is the one who keeps initiatingthe breakups..sooner or later the relationship is just going to falla and never be around anymore...

but if you still want to get with girl, more power to you. but keep in mind that its risky on behalf of your feelings. personally i think the relationship with her and her ex is going to be a finished over and done deal pretty soon, considering what you told me. but its still risky because more then likely with you still trying to hook up with her, shes gonna be thinking about her ex...(i bet she talks about that guy a hell of a lot don't she)....pisses you off huh..

yea i mean i can see that what they had, she'll never get that shit back, no matter how hard she try, but i mean i wasnt TOO attached...but i was attached to the point where i want to see her happy ya mean...but to me i see it as she settling for less if there is a possibilty of them gettin back together, but i dont see that happening. that shit do get me sometimes...all i hear is i miss him...blah blah blah...but i deal wit it...but seriously she gonna have stop that shit...i just want to tell her, all this she thinkin bout she up here thinkin bout him but he probably not even giving her ass a second thought ya feel me.

Originally Posted by OutsideTheBoxEN

damn all i have to say now is dont let ya feelings take the best of you, right now like we all know she hooked on her man right now, what she needs now is a friend by herside, she made it clear that she still want her ex, its on you if you want a girl who doesnt really want you persay.....do you know how long they known each other?, she a writer?she mostly write poems and things like that?

naw man, i dont want no girl who dont want me, but im sayin though all that shit bout to change, i'll show her i can do more, hell i know i can do more for her than her ex could..im pretty sure i can, fuck that shit homeboy im 100% sure i can do more for her ass.

Originally Posted by Kahlm

on the real homie you may wanna think about the reasons why Homeboy broke up with her in the 1st place. you may be gettin youself into a stressful situation. maybe she was on sum dumb shit like lieing to the nigga on a regular basis or manipulative as a muhfucka. or maybe she is just a crazy bitch you never know son. just check up on that.

on a sidenote: i know exactly what youre talking about. EXACTLY

ya mean the reason, from what she told me, ya mean she fucked up, something real bad, she iied to him and all this other shit, she was like basically the reason they broke up was cause she lied and basically fucked herself over...this time shit man i dont even know fo real, she was like how it was just problems that was lurkin in the darkness and just had to come out, or some shit like that, i forgot what she said happen. i was like damn aint no relationship perfect you two going to have problems, but i have to admitt sometimes it seemed like they would argued over someshit that shouldnt even be relevant, and i spoke to her the night they broke up and she realized that sometimes they would go at with each other over dumb shit...at times i was wishing they would break up cause the way she would be stressed out sometimes was fuckin crazy. but on the lieing shit i know she been doing better with that shit...like when those two got back together she wasnt doin shit..fo real fo real i mean i cant even begin to tell u why they broke up this time cause on that part im still lost in the dark. she said she wasnt doing shit to jeopardize her shit wit that nigga, and she wasnt..she hasnt lied to the man since then...so fuck it..once shorty realize that man aint thinkin bout her ass she will be mines...you say you know what im talkin bout...how so?you went through some shit like this? yo help me out ya mean

Originally Posted by piff_fire

good luck in va

yea thanks man...im doin my best ya feel me

[Kaeo.Seru]

I went through that same shit. but see the thing she isnt telling you is how every arguement happened because of some shit SHE SAID OR DID. she's not teling you how her guilt kept eating at her and also their relationship. she's not telling you about how she continues to lie and try to manipulate him to get him back. understand she is willing to go to ANY length to get him back but the method she is trying to use is only pushing him away further cuz he is to smart to fall for it. just leave her alone. there are others out there for you. she needs to grow up a bit b4 you can think about a relationship with her. she sounds like she's about 16 years old.

[DaVe E BuRnOuT]

girls wid xmans in there lives are nothen but problems
don't let your feelings get involved n enjoy it for what it is...Shuv some dollas down her pants n make her dance