on behalf of a friend

[impolite]

im not the type to ask these sorts of questions but this whole thing vexes me.

i know a girl who is confused about her sexual orientation. she truly feels she may be a lesbian, but is repulsed by female genitalia and aroused by the male body.

anyway, the confusion lies here-- shes better at maintaining relationships with girls, more comfortable being touched by girls and doesnt seem to like even kissing men. plus it doesnt help that shes deathly afraid of penetration.

discuss.

[Pembroke]

The answer = female bodybuilders.

[STRONGARM]

Was she raped/abused by a man.!? Or did she try having sex with a guy who didn't understand about foreplay (because young men don't know about that shit and think Pussy is always magically wet) maybe that's why she's scared of penetration. If you stick your DRY dick into a womans DRY pussy.. that's skin on skin with no lube.. it's painful.

Anyways... If she really feels like she's a Lesbian I hope she knows that she's a completely selfish Lesbian. How can you NOT like pussy and be a lesbian.!?

[IllLiterature]

Its either as above something deeply rooted in prior psychological trauma.. or shes just completely insecure in her dealings with men and seeing as shes not sexually attracted to women truly since she has no interest in pussy.. They become a non threatening way to fool around.. little risk of failure and some intimacy

shes not comfortable with men for some reason and thats what causes the problems with relationships and intimacy

[AngelikWispurz]

i'm glad that these two replied. they're really good answers.
buttt yall forgot one thing.

as a girl you're more comfortable with girls becuase
that's how you're raised.
you shower/change with your girl cousins/sisters/friends
and think nothing of it.
you see your friends and female family members naked
all the damn time.
it becomes very normal for you.
so it's not her truly being attracted to women.
it's a closeness she feels with women becuase of her
being a woman.
if she liked pussy, she'd like pussy.

as for being afraid of penetration...
she's just being a virgin.
every girl is/was scared.
if she's aroused by guys,
she wants to fuck guys.
she just needs time.