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01-24-2005, 06:37 PM
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| | Vision... By heart
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I've got a girlfriend who for the first time in my life Im completely happy with in terms of persona... 6 weeks deep into our relationship Ive had to put myself out on the line for her on terms of make myself broke to please her.... taken her out to resturants and cinema etc.. so now Im broke and with valentines coming up she expects me to pay for everything... food, gifts, travel (No car) as thats some kind of valentines tradition... Im starting to feel she has material motive.. shes used to being spoiled by these other boys shes been out with.. She buys me a lot of presents too... DVDs, Shirts, Fragences etc... but Im broke and she really gets into a mood when I am... Does she have material motive? how should I approach this situation?
Advice appriciated
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01-24-2005, 07:16 PM
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What happend to the other BF? let me guess they got broke and she moved on? lol naw j/k. . .Hmmmmm we'll Make somthing to eat(Food), Make her a gift(Gift). . .Make it so she don't want to go anywhere but to spend time with you wherever your at(No travel). . .lol *Done*
Funn i'll see you in the tourney ;)
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01-25-2005, 09:36 AM
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shes a worthless investment, especially when youll just break up sooner or later. | |
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01-25-2005, 10:05 AM
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| | Azn N Latina
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if she is a material person then she's prolly not worth ur time. u should find someone who doesn't depend on "their other half" so much, but in a way its ur fault cuz u kno that she was used to gettin spoiled and u ended up spoilin her too. but i agree wit masticate... make her a dinner, rent a movie and chill at ur house or something... and make her a gift, or just get one that doesn't cost that much. its the thought that counts right? | |
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01-25-2005, 08:29 PM
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^ Right and I have cooked for her... and we always renting out movies at eachothers houses.. I like the idea of making her a gift tho... Thanx | |
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01-25-2005, 08:31 PM
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| | Gold the Phalanx
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hmmm
u gotta job?
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01-26-2005, 07:39 PM
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^ yep. Only Part time tho... | |
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01-26-2005, 07:45 PM
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| | Gold the Phalanx
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i know my girl runs up a fortune on me when i go home...
if ur gonna go to a movie... be a lil late... oops no time to get popcorn!
goin out to eat always plan something ahead... aww sorry hun but lets just drive thru mcdonalds and then we can cuddle
somethin like that!
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01-26-2005, 07:47 PM
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| | Azn N Latina
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lol that actually doesn't sound like a bad idea. but i kno my homegrl would be mad if her bf tried something like that. usually i don't want nothin when i get there so.... yea. me and my bf just chill and go inside unless he wants something. but thats just me. | |
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01-30-2005, 08:53 AM
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fuck that, i make my girl pay for me
occasionaly i will pay for her but its rare
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01-30-2005, 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Funn DementaLL I've got a girlfriend who for the first time in my life Im completely happy with in terms of persona... 6 weeks deep into our relationship | Well congrates to you.
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01-30-2005, 03:35 PM
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^ Thanx
"fuck that, i make my girl pay for me
occasionaly i will pay for her but its rare"
What kind of man are you? lol | |
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02-02-2005, 08:12 PM
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man funn.. you always on this shit round valentines day!
go with your instinct, if it feels like she only interested in money.... cut her loose cous!!!!!
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02-14-2005, 05:10 PM
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Dont Start Something You Cant Finish. Most women dont like changes that result in them not getting their way. So keep it real with her, and she'll make the choice regardless of what you do. so once again I quote myself, DONT START SOMETHING YOU CANT FINISH.
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