Is love just temporary?

[*Payn*]

in my opinion i believe Luv is temporary also ...maybe cuz afta a lil while of b'in nice, sweet, & evathang else in a relationship u eventually get sicc of b'in around dat person regardless of how much luv is there

4 sum people it takes longa 4 tha feelings 2 disappear & tha flame 2 leave tha relationship
othaz it is quicca & without less all extra added on stress 2 go along wit it

[snakes]

i think love isn't temp.
i think once u love someone u love
them forever

[Byrdie]

yes that is tru^^^^^

even if u dont love them with that lovers love

u still love them wit that friend love

[Byrdie]

wha?.......

[groad]

as of right now yes it's just temporary, i'll prolly change my mind eventually, but not right now

[Exile101882]

Love is forever. Love never fails. Love brings about emotion and births state of mind. It is beyond a state of dependency, for which it entails a rich set of characters that brings life to all of its surrounding variables, holding high esteem to those in its equation, conceiving and bearing all truths in lightness while transcending void souls on to a path from destruction to enrichment. Love provides the greatest sense of sovereignty for an individual because if you love yourself, you will do unto yourself accordingly, for no man hates his own flesh, and in a world of self-preservation, self-love seems to provide the greatest example the world can relate to, but it is still love. In fact, love yields an unlimited supply on self-sufficiency as well as instruction that can be absorbed, magnetized, and passed on from one vessel to another through even the most crude and novice of methods as osmosis. Love is everywhere. Real love is the believing, then the seeing- where as the belief is the evidence of things unseen, for those that are seen are already visual and need not any proof. Love is blind not, rather, the world is blind to something that cannot be anymore clear and obvious. Hear this, and receive love. I love you.

[Byrdie]

Nice response

[**JASON BLACK**]

in my opinion, i think sometimes love is a temporary thing, but it depends on the setting. Like last two years ago, this is a first hand experience, i went out with this girl and we went to prom together and everything, but after we both parted ways and went to a different college, we never called each other again or visited each other......She sees me from time to time back home and barely even talks to me, so i think love is temporary in a high school setting....We pretty much had a good thing going though

[tenma]

Originally Posted by S.Champion

What about a parents' kind of love for their child? That ain't temporary.

Love in a relationship can hurt like a motherfucka though. That's probably why shit is temporary.

Are you telling me that no parent has ever stopped loving their child throughout the entire history of human life?

Originally Posted by LadyLocNDubbk

I don't love is temporary at all...for instance, my first boyfriend i was wit him for 3 years, i gave everything to this nigga, my heart, my virginity, and all my time..a little after i turned 18....i was watching the program on t.v called The Beautillion it's a program for male highshool seniors..they do step shows and get scholarships and shit...anyway my man said that he didn't have no kids...was single...and so as i'm watching the program i see this nigga on t.v holding hands wit some old as woman and they annouce him as the father of a dude that was the same age as me....he's married....been married before i was even born....i tried to hate that man with all my heart...but i can't i still find myself thinking about him, e-mailing him...i make myself dream about what we used to have....temporary? i don't think so

That's anecdotal. You're not a person who's been around for even a lifetime yet, let alone longer. Just because you still have feelings for him doesn't discount the fact that love may still be temporary. If the love fades after 5 years or 50 years, that still counts as temporary.

To be honest, I think this thread is asking all the wrong questions. A better question would be "Does love have the ability to be transient?", and the answer to that is an unequivocal yes. Does that mean that everyone who falls in love falls out of love within a lifetime? No. But it does mean that they have the capacity to, and that in some cases, they do.

Have you ever been sad one day, but then happy the next? It's the same thing. Love is an intense emotion and therefore it lasts longer than other, more capricious, emotions. Some people never stop loving people, while others do. The fact that this latter group exists is proof enough that love has the abilityt o be transient.

[moozac]

Love is FOREVER, always have been always will be. Love is not a state of mind it is a state of spiritual connectedness. If we could only learn to express love the way it was originally intended, selflessly and truthfully. Then we would see (understand) the eternal realities of love.

[Shaded Dreams]

Some people find love or "think love" is simply a chemical imbalance.

When people are in love, their brains are producing chemicals such as Oxytocin, which in turn triggers the production of Dophamine. These have similar effects on the body as certain drugs so. Coke, for example. They give you that feeling of well being and pleasure, and they give you a sort of addiction.

on average it can last around 5 years before fading. People fall out of love. Even married couples can stay together, but don't have that same feeling they did earlier on in their relationship. You still love the person, but now it's more of a best friend sort of way. That hardcore romance is gone.

Chemical Imbalance or real... who really knows, i'd like to think it was real.

[Byrdie]

I feel what u r sayin and i like to think thats true

But i also like to think that if one keeps a relationship spicey and whateva that it will still be there(the hardcore love)
Of course things changes but dont let it get boring........

[KlutCh.]

Love is Commitment in the Simplest Explaination of The Word.
Then When Your 'In Love' There Are Two Temporary Stages, Passionate and Compassionate Love.
Passionate Love is Connected to a Strong Mutual Physiological Arousal By Another, Compassionate Love is The Affection We Feel For Those With Whom Our Lives Are Deeply Entwined.
N' When it Gets To That Degree, i Think That Love is Real and Forever.

..Psych Class

[Jay-Rede]

love is'nt temporary at all, getting cheated on and having your heart torn out and spat back at you, hmmm! temporary? nahh!

[Aztek]

lol....scorned?^^

OUR version of love towards a significant other i believe is temporary.......love towards family is granted....you HAVE to love them.....weather you like them or not is all on you....but TRUE love is GOD.....and his love is everlasting......but since we were born sinners...i believe our love is fleeting.....