Do yall think im wrong for treating this girl this way

[chris]

I have decided to start treating her the same way she's treating me. Now, she is just a side chick but she have a great personality, great future. I would put her over my #1 and #2 if she wasn't thinking so much about her self with too much dreams she is trying to accomplished. Chick is beautiful... her skin complexion is the true meaning of black beauty.

Here is the problem. This girl actually told me that she wouldn't go down on me until she get married. She always preach about she dont really need a man now but having one is not a bad idea but then again, she act as if she is in love with me. She call me none stop and I think she might get fired from her job cause she stay calling me from her job also without trying to do her work and she will put me on old whenever she have something to do but then I will hang up and she will call back in a hot min.

The going down on me until she get married part aint really the thing cause I guess I can live without that since she just a side shit but ol girl told me that she's not trying to have sex until she get married. Yo I flipped and almost kicked her out my car and then she like well she will rethink that and get to know me and then she might do it in couple months.

Here is the funny part, I met this chick at the club I work at because they were throwing a party there for her friend. At the end of the party around 5AM, all her friends were fucked up and they left her with me telling her to go have fun and enjoy and they drove off. Im like WTF is going on. Now I couldn't take her home cause my girl live with me so I decided to take her to IHOP and chill with her for the night until around 7am thats when I drop her back home because she said she had to go to church at 10. I drop her home and this chick wouldn't let me go and ended up being attached to me and went with the kissing and feeling on me and all that wild shit in my car in front of her apartment around 7am. She ended up forgetting about going to church and I stayed out there until around 3 or 4pm and I took her and her sister out to eat and shit.

Now she live in VA and I live in MD but thats a 30min or less drive and this chick lives with her parents and shit.

Anyway, to cut story short..... this is what I told her after she told me she can't do anything until she get married or in couple of months. Last weekend, she asked me to take out out on a boat ride and I told her with a straight face that she will be paying for it and she asked me why and I told her I will only pay for shit for her from now on until we get married. We went out to ruby Tuesday to eat and I paid for my food and she thought I was going to pay for everyone and this bitch face went red when she saw me walked out .... she had to use money she plan to use towards something else.

now she is mad... calling my phone, cussing me out, acting all paranoid and nonchalant and all that crazy shit. I promise her I will take her out shopping this weekend but I dont know if she already figured out that im going to pull that same stunt on her. This shit is fun but im starting to think that I might be wrong for doing it. The thing is, this chick is so into me that she wouldn't move on because of the way im treating her. ... .. umm I think.


DAMN .. can't believe I typed all that shit. oh well im bored at work. oh ya I didn't read this ... I just typed so spelling and grammar might be off

[Jay-Rede]

chris the player...

paranoid chicks, obsessive chicks and neurotic chicks = no no and gotta let em go go

[chris]

shit if a chick dont let me smash after knowing her for about a week then fuck that im going awall

[Grimish]

I think If your trying to amuse people like myself, yea continue, not to mention she's just a side thing.

But on the other hand If you can see a future with this chick, don't burn a bridge.

[Fero Blaque]

Currazy, your living with your girl and still have two girls on the side ? Grow up, son.

[chris]

Originally Posted by Fero Blaque

Currazy, your living with your girl and still have two girls on the side ? Grow up, son.

actually, im having problems with my girl so I dont know if she will last or worked out so what im doing is not bad .... more of a back up plan. u just a little kid so u dont understand life. aint like im married or some shit. shit can always happen in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship

[Simagine]

Look here, you have a number 1 AND number 2 chick. So this is how I see it, you get sex of those 2 already. You said "Chick is beautiful... her skin complexion is the true meaning of black beauty.", so why not kick it a little longer with her and see where it goes, you could probably tap that in a month or so if she's talking mariage and so. If I know women a little bit, she said that just to see your reaction and to know if you're the real deal. Not that you were going to hit her up and then leave her for what it is.

But yeah, how old are you? I'm passed that #1 #2 and #3 shit when I'm in a serious situation with a girl. Unless you aint serious with none of them then I can understand. If I just came out of a relationship like I am right now, I'm albe to just go for several side dishes at once.

Okay, I only read the first 3 paragraphs, now I see where this is going. But I still stand by what I said, keep it going a little longer to see where this is heading to. Paranoid chicks are crazy tho, I hope she doesn't know where you live or you can expect a visit of her throwing in windows and shit.

[Mc Free]

maybe if you stay bein nice to her she might rethink the whole marriage concept

[Mistuh Grippz]

Chris what you did was perfect my niggah. You gotta air out these broads if they just tryna get over on yo ass. You doin to her what she doin to you so its all fair. If she feelin on you and kissin you and actin like she wanna fukk but aint, then what you doin is basically the same.. gettin her to the point where she bout to get somethin and then backin off. Tell that trick she needa get wit the program or slide off to a slow jam, real talk.

[Da Source]

lmao.

this bitch is fucked up man.
typical clingy church type broad.

STEER CLEAR

i mean you could change her a bit obviously since she skipped church jus to go out to eat wit cha ass and shit... but bitches like that... they be on that...

"Every relationship prepares you for marriage"
type shit.
so she gon be expectin husband type things from you... so yah...
you gotta make a decision wether its worth the risk to start somethin new wit this girl, or stick wit the girl you already got in ya crib foldin socks and shit.


good luck nigga

[Loch]

Have a Las Vegas marriage, do your thing, and then back to gorilla stance.

[Nomad Toad]

shit son..
well done, that aint wrong..
why should you pay your arguments correct..

she aint actin like you a couple so why should you pay..

Ice cube told you back in the day...I AINT THE ONE!!

[Warrent4Arrest]

if you already have a girl...and this chick on the side want to wait untill she get married before you hit...naw let that go...lol...and plus i hate cheatin now..cuz i always get caught..

[Ekolost]

dis girl sounds like she wanna marry u den divorce u den take yo money.

[Tha Takeova]

pimpin u gotta do wat u gotta do
if she not gonna act rite, thatz her issue, dont do her no favors if she wont do u none